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Conflict Quotient

the applied capability that connects everything I teach

Conflict Quotient framework

Conflict Quotient is the applied capability that draws on emotional intelligence and spiritual intelligence, used together, in the moment a room actually needs it.

Conflict is an absolute opportunity to engage. Not a problem to eliminate or avoid.

Most people are taught to manage emotion, or to see the bigger picture. Few are taught what to do with both, at once, while the room is still tense. That is the gap this fills.

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Conflict Quotient

Conflict is an absolute opportunity to engage.

Not a problem to eliminate or avoid.

Conflict Quotient

All outer conflict is inner conflict.

The applied capability that draws on emotional intelligence and spiritual intelligence, used together, in the moment a room actually needs it.

Inner regulation.

Staying steady when the room gets hard.

Self inquiry under pressure.

Noticing what is yours before deciding what is theirs.

Naming with skill.

Saying the true thing without using it as a weapon.

Inner reflection
All outer conflict is inner conflict.

The five parts

  1. 01

    Inner regulation.

    Staying steady when the room gets hard.

  2. 02

    Self inquiry under pressure.

    Noticing what is yours before deciding what is theirs.

  3. 03

    Willingness to engage.

    Choosing to walk toward the friction, not around it.

  4. 04

    Diagnostic accuracy.

    Seeing what is actually happening, not just what it looks like.

  5. 05

    Naming with skill.

    Saying the true thing without using it as a weapon.

From friction to the other side

From friction to the other side.

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